In India very few
films show the actual act of a man proposing a woman. Perhaps this is because it
takes a lot from a writer to convince the viewers that a girl could fall for a
guy this easy or perhaps most of the love stories in Hindi films are abject
fantasies. Anyone who has done so in life knows how difficult and life threatening
it is to propose a woman and Hindi films make a complete mockery of this
wonderful art (or science, whatever!)
I have proposed to two women in my life. The second time I did
it was a lot easier than the first and it was a success. The first time was a really
difficult one. The words couldn’t form in my mind. Whatever words formed couldn’t
be spitted out of the mouth. Nervousness, sweaty palms and forehead, palpitating
heart, heavy breathing.A feeling that the world would come to an end if she
refused. A sense of emptiness.
I was a lot more confident the second time. I felt I could
move on and there would surely be someone else for me. No nervousness, no palpitating
heart. A certain confidence-perhaps my mind said this would surely be a success,
just believe in me. I was experienced; I was a master of romantic one liners
which could even inspire Aditya chopra. I learnt the lesson that failure is a better
teacher than success.
The above scene, though very filmy and clichéd etc, captures
a tad bit of realism. I feel Tamil films are evolving in the right direction
over their Hindi counterpart. Tamil films handle stories in a lot more mature
way and the treatment is very creative. If you really want to watch some good
Indian movies, I suggest switch over to Tamil Cinema.Hindi films have lost it.
10 comments:
Though I don't understand Tamil... I watched the entire video.. and it's quite cute actually :) I understood the gist of it thanks to the english sentences and the obvious expressions :)
So how did you propose your girl? Guitar? ;)
@S: Yea, Even i am not a Tamilian and i dont really understand Tamil...Actually to see movies you really dont need to know the language...I saw Pather Panchali without the subtitles the first time and enjoyed so much.
No, No guitar.Just a 'will you marry me', but the answer came 6 months later. I was in no hurry either. :)
I did not understand a word .. but somehow understood too
and by the first comment .. On one knee was it and did u go singing around the trees :) he hehe
and COngrats on the answer :)
Bikram's
yu said it mate... sure tamil cinema is the best :)! and when it comes to proposing... nah.. no other lang can beat it!
@Bikramjit: Yea mate.Thanks:)
@Hary:Yea, seen some good Tamil movies lately. i must admit, way superior to Hindi...Hindi should learn from Tamil films.
:).. Is it that difficult to propose?? ;)..
if only i could understand tamil though its a sweet video...
but I do love tamil dances ... and would usually switch to tamil music channels
Tamil movies are getting better than Hindi movies. I never realized it's so difficult to propose. But let me tell you, refusing or accepting a proposal is not an easy task either. ;)
There is another train scene in "vinnai thaandi varuvaaya". That was good too.......
Tamil people are dark skinned and not good looking. North Indians are better looking, sophisticated, well educated, with high standards. I do not agree that Tamil movies are better than Bollywood.
Tamil movies do have a realism that hindi films cant match.
Yes Gayathri and Jyothi proposing is very difficult.
And yes Vinnai thaandi Varuvaaya is a great movie to watch. Love and romance can't be captured to this perfect extent.
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